Fri3nD & r3latiOnsHip

My dear friends,

How important is friend? And How important is relationship?

Anyone know the real meaning of that two familiar terms?

Some said friend is the one who will accompany when u sick, lend u ears, shoulder whenever u need. Some said friend is the angel that God gives us.

For me, friend can be divided into many types, some sort are what we called 猪狗朋友, useless friend in other word. That's not the one we find or need in our life i believe. There are still a lot of different kinds of friend might walk into our life.

For instances, funny friends, like to show off, stylish, gorgeous, and different attitudes friends... But, the one we really need, is what we called the understanding and intimate friends, （真正，知心） who will support u, say something hurt but it does help u, good advicer, care about u in everything, lend u money when u need it(not gamble), a bit long-winded（啰嗦) for ur own good and what had mentioned in above and so on~

As a friend, we should respect each other also, joking can but not too over, as it does hurt someone. If u feel ur life too boring, then u can try to find lame friend! Wahahaha~ My life aint boring, but don't know why i have a lot of these lame friends~ lols! But it's good to have some of these lame friends, not too much or else u will become a lame chop! Muahahaha~ joking saja ya...

How about relationship?

In a religional way, some said relationship is the decree(旨意） given by God. 一夫一妻要成为一体，那就是伴侣... Love is blind, u agree?

For me, Love is so complicated sometimes and brings a lot of sadness and problems to our life. It's true, i believe those ever or currently in a relationship will agree with me. But this 'conflict' is a way to build up and strengthen the relationship between couples. However, cannot deny that fall in love and dating is very sweet.

When u really love someone, u could accepts all of his/her weakness, treat him/her as ur baby, give protection, crazy for her and so on...

In a book, i found this:

爱情：是指男女之间的爱；涉及身体成份占主要部分。

挚爱：在希腊文，它描写一种同时涉及身体及身心的热情，亲密和温柔的关系，及人间最高的爱。

真爱：指牺牲的爱。

林前13：4-8

爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是不嫉妒；爱是不自夸，不张狂，不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡是包容，凡是相信，凡是盼望，凡是忍耐。爱是永不止息。

But I still have not much thoughts and feelings about relationship, i will study more about relationship and share with u all. Thx for reading and giving comments my friends.